A letter to my granddaughter

Hey Sweet Girl,

I am taking time today to let you know what an inspiration you are to me. Your journey, navigating the world as a teenager on the autism spectrum, fills me with both joy and a sense of responsibility. I want to share with you some thoughts, hopes, and dreams that I carry for you and for the world.

First and foremost, I want you to know that you are perfect just the way you are. Your unique perspective, your strengths, your challenges—they all make you who you are, and that person is someone I am endlessly proud of. In a world that often seems too quick to judge and too slow to understand, your authenticity shines through and gives me hope. You are an amazing individual.

But beyond just accepting you for who you are, I want you to live in a world where acceptance is the norm for everyone, regardless of their differences. You see, sweet girl, the beauty of humanity lies in its diversity. Our differences are not obstacles to be overcome but rather gifts to be celebrated. And it's up to each and every one of us to foster a culture of acceptance, understanding, and inclusion.

One area where I think we can make a real difference is in creating more opportunities for individuals on the autism spectrum, just like you. Employment, in particular, is an area where we have a long way to go. Too often, talented and capable individuals are overlooked simply because they don't fit into a narrow definition of "normal." But that's not good enough for us, is it? No, because you and I, we are change makers.

I dream of a future where companies and organizations actively seek out neurodiversity, recognizing the unique skills and perspectives that individuals on the spectrum bring to the table. And I believe that you, sweet girl, will be at the forefront of this movement. Your intelligence, your creativity, and your determination are qualities that any employer would be lucky to have.

But this can’t just be a dream. More than just dreaming, we have to take action. We have to challenge outdated attitudes and stereotypes, we have to advocate for policies that promote inclusion and accessibility, and we have to create spaces where everyone feels valued and respected.

So, sweet girl, as you continue on your journey through life, just know that you are not alone. You have a whole army of people behind you, cheering you on and fighting alongside you for a better, more inclusive world. And together, I truly believe that we can change the world.

I love you.

Nana